Pray For My Brother

I think I will Be OK..
I've been getting the run around on funeral homes
The morgue in Clarksville is having an issue so they moved all remains to Charlestown Indiana 9 miles away
Then I was told Scott Funeral Home, Then Grayson Funeral Home, Then B&G Funeral Home.. ~~~Found Him There~~~ YEAH!!
Now it's Chapman funeral Home near my house..
I have an 11:0am meeting with them in the morning..
Been going through my brothers stuff looking for his car title with zero luck??
Tough to go through his things but had to do it..
All his Race Car memorabilia & Earnhardt stuff.. + His Clothes etc.
 
Guyanaman1963 said:
Hang in there brother! It will get better soon.
I know it’s hard, but God never gives anyone a burden they cannot bear!
Stay the course and know that “I” love you!
So just hang in there!!!!
M.
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I second this--- God has a plan for us all--- though we may not recognize it until some time later. :)

Tony
 
It's Getting a Bit Better..
It's Been exactly a week as of 9:00pm that my Brother Went Down..
Final arrangements will happen tomorrow.. I HOPE!!
I have a fancy Urn for my Brothers ashes & am unsure but think I want to spread them at the race track that's about a mile away from my house.
He Loved that Place..
Here's a picture of #17 in front of my parents house back in the day..
Christmas Grinch @ The Wheel..
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Hk-USPC-40 said:
It's Getting a Bit Better..
It's Been exactly a week as of 9:00pm that my Brother Went Down..
Final arrangements will happen tomorrow.. I HOPE!!
I have a fancy Urn for my Brothers ashes & am unsure but think I want to spread them at the race track that's about a mile away from my house.
He Loved that Place..
Here's a picture of #17 in front of my parents house back in the day..
Christmas Grinch @ The Wheel..
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You're getting there--- excellent idea. :)
Ahhh--- good times. ;)

Tony
 
I'm meeting with the funeral director this morning & it should only cost me $150 IIRC
Be back Later on~~~
Gary

My Bro
Jerry II.jpg
Jerry Sutter 1/27/66-3/18/21
 
Hk-USPC-40 said:
I'm meeting with the funeral director this morning & it should only cost me $150 IIRC
Be back Later on~~~
Gary

My Bro
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Jerry Sutter 1/27/66-3/18/21
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If I can offer some advice....just know that it's going to suck......a lot. You'll be fine at times, and then have full on break downs in the middle of the grocery store, out of no where. I had a friend tell me this, and it's just true. So just please know this is part of the process. I wish you and your family the very best, and I am sincerely sorry for your loss.

I will help you any way that I can, and do not hesitate to reach out.
 
Well The Funeral Director Chuck @ Chapman Funeral Home in Clarksville Helped Me SO MUCH!!
He came & picked My Wife & I Up Took us to His Office Filled all the paperwork out
He wrote the $149 Off & said that We Owe Nothing = Zero.. What??
He will have my Brothers Ashes in about a week as they are super busy with the Covid-19 deaths
Even told me He would deliver the ashes & paperwork to my House if We haven't got a ride by then
It was no stress & only took about a half an hour to get everything in order
Then He dropped us back off & said good bye.. Great Guy that Chuck is..

Also today it's so nice out you can wear T Shirt & Shorts 66 Degrees
Just ate lunch & Can Feel a Nap Coming On..

I've been sweating really badly & think I have a kidney infection or another kidney stone coming
 
Hk-USPC-40 said:
Well The Funeral Director Chuck @ Chapman Funeral Home in Clarksville Helped Me SO MUCH!!
He came & picked My Wife & I Up Took us to His Office Filled all the paperwork out
He wrote the $149 Off & said that We Owe Nothing = Zero.. What??
He will have my Brothers Ashes in about a week as they are super busy with the Covid-19 deaths
Even told me He would deliver the ashes & paperwork to my House if We haven't got a ride by then
It was no stress & only took about a half an hour to get everything in order
Then He dropped us back off & said good bye.. Great Guy that Chuck is..

Also today it's so nice out you can wear T Shirt & Shorts 66 Degrees
Just ate lunch & Can Feel a Nap Coming On..

I've been sweating really badly & think I have a kidney infection or another kidney stone coming
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Still good people in the world. 🌎

Tony
 
I’m glad it as well as can be expected! It was awesome of Chuck to waive the fee!!! Theres good people in this world and the step up when needed... as long as they dont work for the DMV!

Im here for you brother!!! Just holler if you need me!
M.
 
Thanks All of You!!

Now other than the Car & No Ride I'm Good & That will change too!!

I Owe Chuck.. A FREE Lunch will be forthcoming for the folks there..
 
I am happy that things are going better, I'm sure your brother is proud of you. Try not to stress out to much, there is very little you can control in life but we always try to control it all. Cheers to you
 
Stay strong and level-headed. It's a tough row to hoe, but you have the strength. God Bless.
 
I finally got the arrangements done with the crematorium & am having Jerry Cremated by Chapman Funeral Home in Clarksville & chose an Urn that my Wife had around, It's Pretty, Not Very Manly..
Anyhow We will be having a Tribute to Jerry's Life in the Near Future, Not sure What Where or When?
Tammy & I get our 2nd round of the Phizer vaccine on 3/30/21..

Here's that Urn
Pretty Fancy & Pretty
I thought about scattering his ashes at the Sportsdrome Speedway in Clarksville or in the Ohio River..
Made a label for the Urn with his Name Birth Date & Death Date..
I Hope He Would Approve..

Jerry's Urn.JPG

Gary Sutter
 
Thanks Guys!!

Being without a ride right now is killing me.. That has to change too..
I have my bro's mid 80s Camaro Z28/RS with the 283 & a mid 80s S1500 with a 350 sitting in my driveway
They both need minor repairs that I could fix in an afternoon with good weather
My Blood Sugar has been out of control for a week now High & Low... Crazy..
I know it's from forgetting to eat on schedule & sleeping more than usual..
I take two types of Insulin & sometimes they cross in their effectiveness = Lantus & Humalog..
Have reevaluated my life & now??

Thanks for everything Jerry.. Love you Brother..

And Joey where's my $1400 x 2 ?
I could use it YESTERDAY!!
 
I am going to USE the forum to Copy & Paste the Eulogy my Niece made up for Jerry..
That way I can get to it from my Brother's LapTop & Paste it on Facebook.. Thanks!!
Gary

Mr. Jerry Lynn Sutter, 55, of Clarksville, passed away Thursday March 18,2021 at Clark Memorial Hospital. He was the son of Robert L. Sutter, Sr. and Patricia Cunningham Sutter. Jerry was known for his love of life. He loved cars; whether they were his vintage Camaro or a NASCAR racing machine didn’t make a difference. Jerry is survived by his beloved fur baby, Missy; twin brother, Gary (Tammy) Sutter; aunt, Sharon Nix; nephews, Jason Sutter, David Sutter, James Sutter and Matthew Sutter; niece, Christa (Joe) Mouser as well as many friends. He was preceded in death by his parents; sister, Donna Louise D’Antonio; brother, Robert L. Sutter, Jr. and nephew, John Thomas Sutter. All arrangements were entrusted to the care of Chapman Funeral Home.

Thank You All
Gary/Hk-USPC-40
 
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